you know that amazing boyfriend of mine..

This is true...I am further North then I have been in quite some time...but there are lots of Virginia Gentelmen here (not so much the case in FL which is about as South as you can get). I'm sorry La. I don't know what to say but I didn't want to read this and not post. You are such a good person and you deserve to be happy, I don't know the backstory either but it sounds like you have been on a bit of a merry go round with him and you don't need that!

 

I'm sorry La. No matter if its forever or not, he deserves at least a severe pinching for the phone break up. *hugs*

 

Men can be so stupid... I hope that you're okay and things work out the way you need them too... *hugs*

 

((((hugs)))) la!! i keep trying to type out something else that sounds like it's full of wisdom, but i don't have any advice so - just hugs ...

 

i honestly have no words la. just sitting here shaking my head. regardless, i love you.

 

I am so sorry, La. You do deserve better (much better!) than this.. ((hugs))

 

I wish I knew what to say La. I'm so sorry that you are going through this. You deserve only the best! I will be keeping you in my thoughts.

 

I too have no words... GRRRR!!! You totally deserve better than this, and Ce does too

 

I'm so sorry hun. You deserve to be happy and I hope everything ends up working out for the best in the long run as either friends or as more. I'm here for you (((HUGS)))

 

I don't get it. Why break up? Like what's his reasoning?

 

I was thinking the same thing... like how does he expect to be friends, if he can't see you w/o changing his mind... dork!!!

 

Something stupid is freaking him out.

 

And they say women are complicated! Men get freaked out about the future and commitment and forever by the stupidest things. They react poorly, regret it immediately but sometimes the damage is just done.

 

Oh I'm sorry La. I wish I had something better to say, but I'm sorry you're going through this. (HUGS)

 

Hugs.....that's all I can say or do.

 

Hmmmpphf....weenie behavior. Hugs La!

 

Keely got it right. I think the a saying that correctly applies here is "**** or get off the pot." To him, not you.

 

you deserve so much more La~ totally shocked about the "over the phone" break-up, that's just spineless of him. i think i'm going to do a little shopping. . . in your store! it will make me feel better hugs to you!