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Update on my Dad

We all deal with things in different ways. Try not to take whatever your sister is doing right now as a personal attack.
You definitely have my warmest thoughts,and good wishes,both for your dad,and your self,and I will pray that a resolution comes for all of you,so this can become something positive.
 
Unfortunately @Nemla it is personal and has been a ongoing thing. It began with my mother, who though now is passed away, has destroyed her family. My heart has not hurt this badly ever. I just have to remove myself from the situation.
 
So sorry you are going through the difficulty with your sister.

The adult home should be a great thing. You won't have to worry about him so much when he has full-time care. My FIL is in an adult home. He has Alzheimer's and it was really a good thing for him. In the beginning, before his mind wasn't as far gone, he really enjoyed it. He liked to be around other people and he got to relax and have someone help him out after all of the years of taking care of everyone else. :) Hopefully that will be your dad's experience as well. :) Keep us posted.

Hugs to you!!!
 
I too have a positive feeling about the home. After the transition period,you can all relax a bit,and your dad will hopefully begin to enjoy life again.
I am sorry that it does not seem possible to come on better terms with your sister,but please trust me when I say,that if you do what you know is right,then all the words and actions of others will eventually turn into something you can live with without it destroying or taking over your life.
Big big hug,and a bucketful of positive thoughts.
 
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