I'm definitely a planner. You should see my google calendar, my wall calendar, and my desk calendar. LOL! But I do try to be flexible with things that don't really matter. It is hard when there's so much to do and so little time!
When you put it like that, YES! It doesn't take much to get me to drop chores and go do something fun! I'm in!
I totally understand why you would need to be a planner with all those kiddos!! I remember what my calendars looked like when I had 3 at home lol
We are planners for the most part at a day-to-day basis, but put us on vacation and ... spontaneous all the way. I mean I will have a rough plan because you do save money on tickets by buying ahead, but as to what we do each day, pretty spontaneous.