Thank you all for the good wishes and reminders to laugh and enjoy each day as it comes. I'm fortunate to have a good group of women who know we have to laugh because there's always a giggle even in the darkest times. My one friend says that sometimes the angels have a dark sense of humor as I showed her the current book I'm reading. "The Silent Patient" which describes my husband to a T. Boy, is he an introvert! no questions, no reactions but a long long process time.
Years, decades ago, when my mother was dying I read Elizabeth Kubler-Ross "On Death and Dying" which described how people move back and forth in the possible stages/reactions to death, personal loss and many of the other 'negative' things we experience in life -"such as the death of a loved one, the loss of a job or income, major rejection, the end of a relationship or divorce, drug addiction, incarceration, the onset of a disease or an infertility diagnosis, and even minor losses, such as a loss of insurance coverage". It's certainly been interesting to see how various people react and cope with such situations. I've noticed I have a hard time thinking straight right now which is what happens to me when I get overwhelmed with any emotion. I'm smiling as I write this because in the past I used to wonder if I had a brain tumor when my thinking got muddled!!
And love to all of you who are facing such situations with loved ones. It ain't easy...