@Karen I just visited my daughter a week ago to keep her company while her husband had a minor surgery. I took 2 bins of things to her (a lot of old school stuff) to sort through -- almost all of it went into the trash, but she needed to see it one last time and make that decision. There are still more things that I'm collecting in "her closet" for the interim and will probably take her a couple of more when baby comes. We have gone through some of her things via FaceTime chats (easier with clothing, videos, books -- a bit harder with papers). Unfortunately, during the time of her pregnancy when it would have been easier for her to travel, the pandemic had our state with full hospitals adding a bit too much risk. So we adapted.