Foreshadowing

scrapsandsass

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So you know how you are reading a book or watching a show and there is foreshadowing about things to come?? I had an up-close and personal experience with that this week. LOL. I can laugh about it now, or I will just curl up into a ball and cry.

We've been without a car since mid-July when ours broke. Even though my hubby works at a bank as a credit underwriter, he has no financial sense. :giggle I did some calculating, and the best option for us was to combine the mortgage on our two properties and re-finance, using the lower interest rate, saving a lot of money, and getting a bit of cash back to buy a car and not have a car payment. We've been "in process" and waiting for the appraisal (which finally came through). So hopefully we'll have a car by next week. ANYWAY, my grandma loaned me her car last week so I could get Kennedy back and forth to school. She drives a few times a week to get to the store or to the hairdresser or to church, but she's cut back on driving.

Friday, I took Kennedy to school, and then took my grandma to run a bunch of errands. She's 96, and lives on her own, still drives, and is in good health. So she's always amazing people and a lot of people were talking to her on Friday. She told three different people, "I'm 96 and still driving, although I probably shouldn't be." After all of the errands, she told me she needed to go to the clinic for a urinary tract infection on Saturday, so she took her car and drove home. After her saying that all day, I was a wee bit concerned because of Friday afternoon traffic. She made it home fine, but then...

She called on Saturday to tell me that she accidentally crashed her car into her washer and dryer when she was putting it back in the garage (because it had gotten stuck in a rut off of the side of the driveway... she gunned it and BAM). She said that her neck was a little sore, but it wasn't that big of a deal. She said she was fine and refused to go to urgent care or the hospital on Saturday. But she did say that it was probably the end of her driving days. Really? You think? Oh yes, gentle readers... the foreshadowing did tell. I was seriously waiting and listening for a narrator's voice at that point.

But I couldn't really have imagined. OMG. I got over there and found she'd totaled both machines, part of the wall, and her car. The front of her car is crumpled, the windshield is fractured because the impact broke the side mirror off and it flew around and hit the glass. The driver's side door doesn't open anymore. Both the washer and the dryer were totally mangled, but she was just worried that she had a batch of underwear and socks in the dryer that needed to be taken out. :/ Tim got a pry bar and managed to get most of the laundry out. But I told her she had no choice, and I took her to urgent care, where they found a fracture of the C2 (with displacement) and compression fracture of C7-T1. She was walking around like nothing had happened, and she had a freaking broken neck. They completely freaked out at urgent care, and then couldn't send her to our local hospital because no one can apparently handle that. They had an ambulance come to whisk her off to Harborview which is the northwest's major trauma center. It took forever because it is a major trauma center, and there was a ton of craziness going on (amazingly she didn't have any neurological issues and was just flat on her back in a brace). Now she's getting another type of brace and is going to be sent home because they don't want to operate on her. She completely amazes me. Breaks her neck in multiple places, and spends the day griping at me to go home and be with my husband. LOL. She is a crazy woman.

I just feel like life is completely insane these days. My daughter said, "You know how, when bad things happen, people always tell you God doesn't give you more than you can handle... if someone says that to me again, I'm going to punch them in the throat." :giggle I think I'm with her on that one. :giggle

I'm totally missing the Pad peeps (and my sanity). I seriously need some scrap therapy!!!
 
Wow. Sounds like she knew that she was having problems but not wanting to admit it. That would be so scary. I'm glad your grandmother "is okay" although I can't tell is she still in the hospital or home. So sorry you're going through this. You really have your hands full. Sending lots of hugs and prayers.
 
Oh no! All I can say is, it appears she was lucky it wasn't worse. She's also blessed with caring family who are close enough to help, and that's fantastic! My grandpa had a similar incident and my family now realizes it was foreshadowing of his decreasing mental and physical health. I'm not trying to get all up in your grandma's business, so I hope you don't mind my saying, but I do wonder if perhaps she confused the gas for the brake? The amount of damage to the car/garage seems excessive. But of course, cars nowadays are built to crumple in order to save the people inside, so I could be totally wrong! And if she did get confused, then perhaps that also means you might need to stealthily watch her habits around the house for other signs. (Wow, I'm like a total Debbie Downer right now, aren't I? *wah-wah*)
 
Sorry for all of you,and sending healing vibes and good thoughts. Also a boxing glove in case someone says the thing about God not giving you more than you can handle. .... if none of the above help. ; cry , eat chocolate,look in the shop or in your stash for a kit you just "have to use" dry your tears and give way to an imaginary world for an hour or so.
P.S.. I really like the sound of your grandma. She sounds determined to want to heal. That is more than half the battle won already.
 
omyword!!!!! I'm sorry! It sounds as if it's all happening at once! Keep putting that foot forward! I'm sending good vibes and man, just some good thoughts your way! I think I like your granny! :giggle Hoping she is back home, comfortable and happy soon!
 
Oh, my! She is one tough lady! I was totally cracking up that she totaled her car, the washer and dryer, and broke her neck, and she was more worried about the laundry in the washer- oh, my!

Big hugs to you and your family. We are all here whenever you need to vent!
 
My grandmother is 91, working on 92, and she still drives. She lives alone and is fiercely independent. Sounds a lot like your grandma! There's something about my grandma, too. She's made of hard stuff. I don't know if it's the generation or what, but she just doesn't want a fuss made over her. One of the good things, though, is that she was a nurse and is pretty in tune with her body . . . still, though, an aging body doesn't always give the best signals. She ended up with pneumonia and then congestive heart failure at Christmas because I think she was underestimating her sickness. Anyway, I blathered on about all that to say that your grandma sounds like my grandma!

But I still can't believe she had a broken neck. Geez!!! I would have been freaking out!

Keeping you and yours in my thoughts and prayers . . .
 
She completely amazes me. Breaks her neck in multiple places, and spends the day griping at me to go home and be with my husband. LOL. She is a crazy woman.

Holy guacamole! I hope that (a) I make it to 96, and (b) that I'm as spry and feisty as your grandmother at that age! She sounds like a true character. :)

I just feel like life is completely insane these days. My daughter said, "You know how, when bad things happen, people always tell you God doesn't give you more than you can handle... if someone says that to me again, I'm going to punch them in the throat."

Every time people say that to me, I tell them "Well, I wish God didn't trust me so much." :banghead
 
OH my gosh!! Glad things were not worse than what they were! But your grandma sounds awesome :) Hope she heals quickly.
 
Wow! Every time I hear a story about your Grandma I just love her a little more. She sounds so awesome and fierce! I'm SO glad that she didn't have anything worse happen. I can't believe she was walking around with a "little" sore neck and it was broken! I hope she heals well and quickly.
 
Poor Grandma, I'm glad she was taken to Harbor View instead of Grey-Sloan Memorial Hospital, too many doctors with anxiety issues there!

I hope she is doing better, healing well.
 
Wow, so glad that it wasn't worse! Healing thoughts to your grandma, and I hope that insurance will cover the damages.
 
My daughter said, "You know how, when bad things happen, people always tell you God doesn't give you more than you can handle... if someone says that to me again, I'm going to punch them in the throat." :giggle I think I'm with her on that one. :giggle
Oh. My. Goodness. If I ever even think that I quickly follow with "God I was just kidding -- no more" So glad she is ok and getting better now!
 
Your grandma sounds like a spunky, independent lady! I'm glad she wasn't hurt any worse and that you were able to get her to go to the doctor. Hope she heals up quickly.
 
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