RIP: my father

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  1. cookingmylife

    cookingmylife Pizza would be my last meal, except ...

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    I'm so sorry to hear this Berniek. I'll be thinking of you these coming days and wishing you and your family peace and love. :heartslub
     
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  2. wvsandy

    wvsandy Grinning Granny

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    So sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
     
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  3. gonewiththewind

    gonewiththewind I choose joy.

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    I've been praying for you and your family. I'm so glad you have a measure of peace now that he is back home. I'll be really praying on Wednesday. Love and hugs to you!
     
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  4. Sokee

    Sokee What we do in life echoes in eternity

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    ((hugs)) I will be praying for your family.
     
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  5. Mrivas

    Mrivas I know how to spit like a man

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    I'm so sorry for your loss! Hugs!
     
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  6. carrie1977

    carrie1977 Tequila and Taco Tuesday

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    Sending my thoughts to you and your family.
     
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  7. gillscott

    gillscott Waldo's just my alias

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    i'm so sorry, thinking of you and your family, hugs!
     
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  8. dagi

    dagi Aiming high

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    I am SO sorry Berniek.. Sending big hugs your way.. If there's anything I could do, just let me know..
     
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  9. KittyY

    KittyY Who is Dol-say and Gab-anna?

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    I am so so sorry!! I lost my mother last April - married to my dad for 60 years. I understand :(
     
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  10. berniek

    berniek I have a girl crush on the Naming Fairy

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    Thanks again for all your kind words, virtual hugs and prayers.

    We had a church service last night which was gorgeous. Very personal, very lovely.
    Today the actual service and burial happened. Again, it was gorgeous. Very difficult, of course, but good. I have a killer of a headache right now, which is not something I have often. I think it's the release of all this tension. It's done now.
    Normally either the ladies choir or mens choir sing, but because my mom is part of the choir, the full choir was present. There were lots of people present, both today and last night. (You have no idea how many postcards my mom (including us as a family) has received already. Currently 130+. The mailman must go crazy) But everything was perfect, everything was right.

    Now time will do it's work to sooth our souls.

    I'm very glad that both my two sisters and I are teachers. We both have another 3,5 weeks of summer vacation. So we can spend it together and with my mom. We're not gonna be together all the time, like this last week, but just having the option is a good feeling. We can take our time and not rush into our busy work lives.

    I'm very anxious to get back into my scrapping mode. I've missed it.
    I don't normally do heritage pages, but I think you're gonna see a whole lot of those now.
     
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  11. jenn mccabe

    jenn mccabe She's OUR sunshine!

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    Glad to hear the services were beautiful for you and your family Berniek. He sounds like he was a very loved man! Happy you, your sister and Mom can be there for each other for the next few weeks with a relaxed, peaceful pace. Big {{hugs}} to you ... get some rest for that headache. :beat
     
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  12. aballen

    aballen Don't make me break out the milk

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    I'm so sorry, Berniek. Lots of love and a big hug for you and your family.
     
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  13. Juliestcyr

    Juliestcyr Grammar nerd and proud of it

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    My thoughts are with you and your family, Berniek. Take the time you need, and know we are all here, waiting for you when you feel like getting back to scrapping.
     
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  14. Nemla

    Nemla Stretching my skill set

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    Sounds like a lovely service,and a healing one. Blessings on you and yours.
     
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  15. Karen

    Karen Wiggle it, just a little bit!

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    I am so glad to hear that the services were all gorgeous and personal for you and your family. Also, really happy that you have the luxury of extra time off to heal together as a family. Sending continued hugs your way.
     
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  16. KarenB

    KarenB I like dogs. And maybe three people.

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    Sounds like a beautiful service. Glad you have family around you :beat
     
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  17. carrie1977

    carrie1977 Tequila and Taco Tuesday

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    I bet the full choir was beautiful...chill worthy even.

    When my grandpa passed one of my best friends played Amazing Grace on his bagpipe at the grave site. It was beautiful.
     
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  18. bestcee

    bestcee In love with places I've never been to

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    It sounds lovely. I'm glad you got a full choir! And I'm glad you still have 3.5 weeks to grieve, comfort and love.
     
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  19. amandac

    amandac Read, or Run? Hmmm ...

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    Sending you some hugs berniek, so sorry to hear about your loss x
     
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