I'm sad :(

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  1. crystalbella77

    crystalbella77 Capture life and embrace it

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    I'm sad :(

    A dear friend of my dad's passed away this week. :( He was my adopted uncle and just one of the kindest bravest people in the whole world. He was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer three years ago and fought soooo hard. He refused to just wait to die so they traveled and spent loads of time with his grand kids. My dad is going to be a pall bearer with some other of their friends. What is really really awful is that the pall bearers were picked out when they first told him he was going to die and since then two of their other friends have passed away. :( One of them a couple years ago while at work (they all worked together) and another on his way to work this past december. :( It's so upsetting for me to think about. I never thought my parents were at that age where I have to be prepared for them to pass away ya know? It's hitting my dad pretty hard and his family is just so devastated. No matter how prepared you think you are...you can't ever bear the loss of someone you love that much :(

    Sorry for the sad post..but i needed to get it out a bit *cry*
     
  2. Brandi

    Brandi You're so fine, you're so fine you blow my mind

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    :hug Aww, Crystal, I'm so sorry! I know it's so hard to lose someone you love and especially watch the ones you love go through it. Thoughts are with you!!!
     
  3. rmcabana

    rmcabana Hit me with your best shot

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    Oh that's so sad, Crystal! I'm sorry for your loss.
     
  4. heathergw

    heathergw Singing in the Neil mobile

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    oh my goodness (((BIG HUGE HUGS))) sweetie... I can't even imagine how hard this is for you all... so heartbreaking :(
     
  5. Karen

    Karen Wiggle it, just a little bit!

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    That really is so sad! I'm sorry that you and your family are having to deal with this loss. At least you can all keep his memory alive together and mourn together too. Big hugs to you!
     
  6. melrio

    melrio I will hunt you!

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    You go ahead and vent girl! It's hard for me to think that my parents are getting older too and I see the sadness in my dad when someone their age passes.
     
  7. ChantalK

    ChantalK ChantalK

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    Crystal, I am so sorry to hear if this passing. Loss is so hurtful and sad no matter when or why. My sincerest condolences to you, your family and his...hugs
     
  8. Angie4b1g

    Angie4b1g A hundred jobs but Bob Villa ain't one

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    Aww Crystal I am so sorry. That's so tough. {{{hugs}}}
     
  9. RachelYoung

    RachelYoung RachelYoung

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    Cancer is so ugly. I'm so sorry you're all going through this. Lots of love from me, darling! xo
     
  10. Dana

    Dana Dana

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    oh crystal - so sorry for your loss :( (((hugs))) - it's never easy to lose someone close to us ... i'll be thinking of you and your family.
     
  11. scrapsandsass

    scrapsandsass Oh Ricky you're so fine ...

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    Hugs. I'm so sorry. There aren't words to comfort you. Just hug. :(
     
  12. eryn

    eryn gross no longer

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    hugs hugs for you and your family crystal :(
     
  13. yellowpeep

    yellowpeep Spaaaarrrrrkkkleeeee

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    I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, Crystal. I'm sending you my most peaceful and powerful thoughts right now. It's so healthy to let it out sometimes and you've come to the right online community for it-- you're surrounded by love here. :love
    Breathe deeply and try to be patient with yourself.
     
  14. estir_bune

    estir_bune No, it's snot

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    so sorry Crystal... we will keep you (and your family) in our prayers
     
  15. Cristina

    Cristina Handmade with love, actually

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    I'm so sorry for your loss, Crystal! Big, big hugs!
     
  16. bderby

    bderby No, I will not tell you what "merde" means!

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    I am so sorry, Crystal.
    I hate cancer so much. I am so sorry for your loss.
     
  17. renee82

    renee82 renee82

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    *hugs* my dear. I'm so sorry for your loss. xox
     
  18. HeatherB

    HeatherB Ain't nothin wrong with a few dust bunnies!

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    In so sorry Crystal - that's so devastating. Hugs to you, your Dad, your family.
     
  19. tanbanan

    tanbanan New Member

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    i'm so sorry to hear this Crystal. .. i am grateful to hear that they had time together and that they made the most of it. thanks for sharing with us~ Hugs to you!
     
  20. Sara

    Sara Riding in the Neil mobile

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    Been thinking about you so much sweetie. I know the ache is heavy, love. I am so sorry for your loss. ((hugs))
     

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