Joining others in.... re-introducing myself

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  1. A-M

    A-M Not a lot of hustle in my hustle anymore

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    I joined here back in 2016 but my journey into digital scrapbooking ( what I at the time called turning to the "dark side") started in 2008. I had started paper scrapbooking after the birth of my first grandchild in 2006. At first I was hesitant to try digital but once I got started, I was off and running. I started with PSE6 and then in 2009 when I started dabbling in designing I purchased Photoshop CS3 and now I use CS6 and hope to stay with it.

    Personally, my husband and I live in a small retirement village in a country town with a population of 3,000 here in Queensland, Australia. Back in 2022 we lost our home in a flood and did not have the funds to repair it so sold the house as is. It gave us enough to buy where we now live in one bedroom unit and it suits us well. We really enjoy where we live. Ken goes off most days to his workshop which is in the local Museum which is like a small village. He creates his own woodwork and does repairs etc for the Museum. He is about to start selling his woodwork in a local store. We were part of a local Co-operative Craft store but that went sour last year when a new lady took over and started bullying people and made decisions as if she owned the store. Decisions should be made by the members not one person. As I did a lot of volunteering in the store that has freed my time up some. I am going to start attending a weekly craft group where I will join the other ladies in crocheting rugs for charity. I have also joined the local Book Club which meets once a month.
    I have only one daughter. I was a single unmarried mother when I married Ken. Sadly my daughter is shutting us both out of her life after the tragic death of her husband last February. I write and send things to my four grandchildren with no response. It hurts because the oldest is 18 so could phone or write. The pain is not so bad now as I wait and hope for a reconciliation sometime in the future.
     
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  2. jagruti patel

    jagruti patel Now where did I put that artifact?

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    So nice to learn more about you! Wishing you the best woth family stuff...I know that is hard!
     
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  3. ninigoesdigi

    ninigoesdigi Designer

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    Your story with your daughter is heart breaking but don't give up hope. Someday your grandchildren might come and reach out by themselves and they'll be happy to know you tried all those years too. Good luck.
     
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  4. keepscrappin

    keepscrappin ScrapWithTheWind

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    Oh Anne-Marie it's so nice to have you in our community. You've always been so friendly and helpful. I'll keep you and your daughter's family in my prayers. Sending BIG HUGS to you too! :heartlub
     
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  5. michelepixels

    michelepixels A pun is not fully matured until it is full groan.

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    It sounds like your community has some wonderful social opportunities. I hope things smooth out with your daughter. :hug
     
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  6. IntenseMagic

    IntenseMagic Some grannies cuss a lot. I'm some grannies.

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    I love these re-introductions! It sounds like you have a wonderful retirement life and I hope that your daughter and grandchildren will reach out and seek a relationship with you very soon.
     
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  7. HeatherB

    HeatherB Ain't nothin wrong with a few dust bunnies!

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    Hi Anne-Marie! Sounds like retirement is working out just nicely! Glad to hear you recovered from the flood and loss of your home. So sorry about your daughter, I hope that you are able to reconnect with her in this new year.
     
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  8. StefanieS

    StefanieS Think it over, think it under

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    Hello again Anne-Marie. Thanks for taking the time to re-introduce yourself.
    I can empathize with the family stuff, there is a whole branch of mine that I haven't met with since before Covid. Sucks big time. We have to trust that reconciliation will happen one day.
    Love that you're thriving in retirement.
     
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  9. cfile

    cfile My bags are packed for Platform 9 3/4

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    Hi Anne-Marie! I am so glad to hear that you are loving your retirement community and that Ken is thriving with his wood working. I am so sorry regarding your daughter. Each person deals with grief differently and maybe she just needs this time to be alone. Don’t stop sending the cards etc… she and the grands will hopefully come around and be grateful you did not give up on them during their time of grief. Prayers for you and your family in the new year!
     
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  10. tinkerbell1112

    tinkerbell1112 Offical Ambassador of the Magic Kingdom

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    hi! I love these re-introduction threads. So nice to get to know a little more about the faces I've seen over the years. I'm so sorry about your daughter and grandchildren. I pray it will change for you in the new year!
     
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  11. scrappydonna

    scrappydonna Blah blah blah

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    Hi, Anne-Marie... the situation with your daughter is pretty hard.. Sending hugs and prayers...
     
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  12. Roxana

    Roxana Bananas for radishes

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    Hello, Anne-Marie! It's nice to get to know you better. I am so sorry about your "situation", but you never have to lose hope. I'm sure they will realize that family is a very important part in our lives and will try to reconnect. Don't give up.
     
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  13. Cristina

    Cristina Handmade with love, actually

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    Hi Anne-Marie, it's lovely to get to know you a bit more! I am so sorry about your daughter's loss and distancing, I hope the situation will improve for you!
     
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  14. umyesh

    umyesh President of the Hangry Ladies Supper Club

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    Nice to meet you Anne-Marie!
     
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  15. Karen

    Karen Wiggle it, just a little bit!

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    I'm so glad to see that you and Ken are settling into your new area after the flood. So sorry to hear about your daughter. Grief can make people not see straight. I pray that your relationship with her and your grandchildren can be repaired.
     
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  16. tiffany scraps

    tiffany scraps still plays outside

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    Wishing you and your family peace and healing. So glad you have scrapping to find some joy in. I always love seeing your creations.
     
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  17. littlekiwi

    littlekiwi I charge by the hour for anything before noon

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    Lovely to hear more of your story. Waving from across the Tasman.
     
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  18. KimJ

    KimJ Did you check in the refrigerator?

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    So glad that things seems to be working out well in your new home, Anne-Marie. :) I hope the situation with your daughter improves soon. That has to be hard. ((((hugs))))
     
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  19. Annsofie

    Annsofie Crime Books & Cozy Nooks

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    I’m sorry for the hard times you have been through Anne-Marie. I hope you will find a way forward with your daughter and grandchildren. It sounds like you and Ken fills the days with meaningful activities. Thanks for sharing your story!
     
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  20. Angela Toucan

    Angela Toucan I keep looking for THAT wardrobe

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    bless you. I pray for restoration.
    Thank you for being such a valued member of our community. The Lilypad wouldn't be the same without you.
     
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