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How-to-Help

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This is an ATC. My inspiration was Step #5 in the Psychology Today article.
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How to Help
I'm not a "people" person. I don't have the "caregiver gene" when it comes to people. Animals - Yes. People - No. But, when I recently had to become the personal caregiver for a loved one on their final journey, I TRIED to do it but realized it just isn't in me. That is when I found Hospice care. I was able to turn my loved one over to people who knew how to give her the personal care I just couldn't in those last few days and who made me realize it is OK that I couldn't do it. I was there for the emotional support, just not the physical. Sometimes "helping" is learning that you are not the one to do it and finding someone who can.
CREDITS: KIT: Painted Dreams by Rebecca McMeen; FONT: Of Wildflowers and Wings
Beautiful ATC. That last sentence is quite profound: "Sometimes 'helping' is learning that you are not the one to do it and finding someone who can."
 
This is really amazing! And yes! I can so resonate with it! I am so glad you were able to find the care for your loved one and not have to feel overwhelmed with it!

And I agree- this is a beautiful ATC! Thank you so much for sharing!
 
I would think I'd be horrid at being a caregiver, I was aghast when a co-worker of mine, a management engineer, decided to chuck her career out the door to become a registered nurse. Some people have that nurturing gene, some people don't. And you were fortunate (as well as your friend) for finding your balance. What a wonderful friend you were!
 

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