when do you go to the ER? (A&E if you are British!)

Such a difficult dilemma. I mean, you know your body better then anybody else. I am sometimes afraid I don't take pains and issues too seriously. So I would probably not have gone to A&E yet. But that's just me.

Also I don't completely understand the concept of A&E and ER in your countries. Because in my country, if you would go, you would get helped basically right away. So we might be talking about something else.

But I'm happy you felt a bit better in your last posts. I hope it's just a false alarm. :)

oh nooo, we are talking same thing, but your country is smaller and mu ch better government, by what I know..
ER = Emergency Room
A& E = Accident & Emergency

Thing is, you are seen almost straight away by the triage nurse, but these days, even the triage nurse has a waiting time if you don't arrive in an ambulance or profusely bleeding or with chest pains.
When you arrive, you go to the reception counter, give your details and tell them what your issue is.
If you are having palpitations, can't breath properly or are bleeding or are screaming in pain, you may get taken straight away to another room and be seen quiet fast.
In this case, I would give my details, they would log me in and then I will wait an average of 15/20 minutes as they are under staffed, generally there are only 2 triage nurses in hospitals like University College of London Hospitals,which we call UCH. The triage nurse listens to you, takes your blood pressure, and depending of your complain, you may have blood taken with the nurse or whatever they can do to assess what is going on, then you are sent to the waiting room again....and then is when you would have to wait in cases like what is going on with me now.
Even after the doctor sees you, sometimes you are seen by students or a junior doctor, or an intern or a resident or some like that, not someone who can make decisions without someone else of higher rank , so you will have to wait even more. When I was admitted in 2013 (I don;t think you were around then, but some of the girls may remember) it was my gallbladder so I had to admitted to get intravenous antibiotics, long story, but I ended up having the gallbladder removed in an operation...... 8 months later. So yes, we are talking same thing, but priority is given to people who are in risk of dying...and I don't think I am ...well, not right away and not because of this pain... so my average wait would be 4 or 5 hours. It is less when is children, but still, in a few occasions that I had to take Sarita as a child...we did wait, less, but wait never the less ... :( so that is one bug thing that puts me off going, because I know I would end up making my every day pain a lot worse...
I imagine the difference is because you guys are less people, your NHS staff maybe better paid and the whole health service has to be a lot more organized for what I know about .... Thanks so much for making time to post here Bernie, you know how much I love you!!!!!

As an update to everyone: my GP/family doctors aren't picking up the phone. There is a GP number for weekends one can call, but that would be even more complicated than going to the ER, so we will go a bit later when I know I can park without being fined :)
I was able to sleep, and I am now having coffee and I am hungry...so, that is one thing that makes me less worried

Thanks YOU so so much girls to keep me occupied and reassured last night!!!!
:heartlub:heartlub:heartlub:beat:heartlub:heartlub:heartlub:yourock
 
I hate going. I think I will be found in my home, passed on. Cause I have to be dragged for me to go to the doctor for any reason. But...........
I will take my kids and press my husband to go...

Anne!!!! sorry I completely missed your post last night!!!!! I guess I am the same...with Sarita I would not doubt it for a minute, I always went even if I thought it could be minor thing... I keep going to my doctor because SHE calls me when I haven't been for over 6 weeks!! they send us letters for the regular check ups, because I'm type 2 diabetic, high blood pressure and a number of other risk groups (with heart failure now even more!) they send letters until you book it... but my GP calls me on the phone...the woman has been so so amazing to us, both Sarita and myself, that I kinda feel obliged to do what she says LOL

Cynthia, I'm glad that you don't feel SO horrible that you think you should rush to the hospital! I know you're in pain, which makes me sad! Does your GP's office have a doctor on call? I mean, could you call your GP's office number and get transferred or connected to a doctor who is scheduled to handle urgent matters outside of regular office hours? Because he or she could have some more questions to help you decide if you should go to the hospital right now or if it is okay to wait until you can see your GP tomorrow.

Sara , missed this I guess last night too!!! we do, but like I mentioned to Bernie, sometimes the places they sent us are far away or where we can;t park, which makes it a bit difficult and easier to go to the ER.
In Brazil and Argentina you can even call a home visit...here? even when I was agoraphobic and wasn''t leaving the house and was having the district nurse coming regularly...they made so much of a fuss.... and the doctor who come? they were so obviously annoyed that you "made them" get out of the consulting rooms....
I slept, I am eating, no nausea, no vomiting, no excruciating pain, or I would gone already.. I know I need to be seen, so we will go a bit later when I can park :)
thank you so so much, my dear girl, love you!!!!!!

Also: thank you once again everyone, The Pad's family rocks!!!!!
 
Sorry I missed this earlier @MrsPeel Please do go if it continues, and keep us posted. Hugs a bunch. You are in my prayers. I can't tell you more than everyone else. I wold deinitely go regardless today if you still have the symptoms as the meds you are taking for other stuff can be masking severity of the situation. Glad you are feeling better emotional wise and that you are hungry etc but if the same pain is there as has been the last day or two, you need to see about it. Hugs. XO
 
Just a fast check in here before going off to my daughter's for the day...no advice that hasn't been given but lots of xoxoxo.

My opinion of our ER here is that it is better to stay home and see my doctor.
 
I'm glad you are going in somewhere today Cynthia, and that you're feeling a bit better! I never go to the ER unless I'm bleeding profusely (which does happen), but rarely do I suggest anyone do things the way I do them :)

I'm actually a bit surprised at how ER-averse we as a group are! :lmao
 
Cynthia, I hope it all works out to the result being that nothing seriously wrong is going on in your body.

Our Emergency section in our hospitals here in Australia are not the best at times. The last time I went with bad sinus attack ... terrible pain and vomitting. The nurse immediately gave me something for the vomitting but I did not get to see a doctor for about 4 hours. I remember it was after midnight we headed home after having arrived around 7pm.
 
I hope you are ok, Cynthia. Please, keep us posted.

I have never been to the ER for myself, but plenty of times with my boys.
Things here are basically as you described them. You go in, they take your details and the waiting time depends on the problem and the general number of people waiting. With my kids I usually go to be on the safe side but for myself I probably would have to feel like dying.

Alternatively, could you call an ambulance in situations like that? At least you would get emergency treatment right away...
 
OMGoodness Cyn, are you OK today?

I believe we're lucky with our NHS, but know what a PITA it can be to be seen once you get to A&E.

I'd first call NHS Direct - any time I've done that and been referred to the hospital, I've been seen/treated within 10-15 minutes of getting there... just by calling them, you are already one-step ahead by being 'in the system' KWIM - but I'm one of those who has to be in dire need to get to that stage. I can only suggest to go by your gut instinct (easier said than done eh!).

I've Googled symptoms before and then wish I hadn't!
 
Just now reading this, so I hope you have already seen a doctor. Praying for you dear Lady. :heartslub
 
I hope everything is ok now. Keep us posted!

I google symptoms too. Once I self-diagnosed a strange skin problem that two doctors failed to identify. But most of the times, my symptoms get worse due to the power of suggestion.
 
Hope you've gotten in to see someone by now!

I've never been to the ER myself (well, I guess I've been in the ER but both times was when I was in labor so they took me straight back to an L&D room) but I had to take my daughter when she was 4 or so after a bead "accidentally flew" up her nose. :giggle
 
Hope you are feeling a bit better and/or have managed to see someone. Really hoping that doesn't mean a long miserable wait in A&E xxxx
 
I'll cross my fingers that when you go, you won't have to wait a bazillion hours!! I'd be worried about the pancreas since you're having pain in that area.

I have to bleeding from eyes/ears or have guts sticking out before I go to the ER...I'm a total germaphobe so just the thought of having to be in close proximity of someone with who knows what is enough to keep me away from the ER.
 
@MrsPeel Cynthia! Did you end up going to A&E? How are you today?

I did, 3 times. :( I'm home now but I am in a lot of pain so trying to sleep as much as I can waiting fr an answer on all the test as they seem not be sure (nothing new there with me) my GP is now dealing with them, she sent the test to a different laboratory, see what they say. :(
Havent read any of the post apart frm yours @Karen, but will try come bacl later on :) Love you all!!!!:heartlub:heartlub:heartlub
 
I did, 3 times. :( I'm home now but I am in a lot of pain so trying to sleep as much as I can waiting fr an answer on all the test as they seem not be sure (nothing new there with me) my GP is now dealing with them, she sent the test to a different laboratory, see what they say. :(
Havent read any of the post apart frm yours @Karen, but will try come bacl later on :) Love you all!!!!:heartlub:heartlub:heartlub

Ugh! What an awful way to spend your birthday. I pray they find some answers and relief for you soon!
 
Aww, so sorry you spent your birthday like this Cynthia. I hope you start feeling better ... maybe you can celebrate over the weekend if you are feeling up to it. Sending healing thoughts to you!
 
Have been away and just saw this thread now. I am so sorry to hear of your troubles. Hoping that the test results give some clues to the cause of the pain. Sending prayers your way.
 
Ugh...I am so sorry you are still suffering so much pain. I hope they are able to find answers for you. <3
 
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