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DH and I treat most things as a team... whether we tag team... we work together. I might have to ask him a couple times to do something or get something... but it doesn't get to nagging...
He does the boys/school routine in the morning. I do after school/homework. We both cook, and usually cook together. Sometimes the kids join in. We also have a cleaning service every 2 weeks. We came to the conclusion that our time is better doing other things... and not getting stressed about cleaning. We both keep things pretty neat between visits - or at least we clean a little before she comes, lol!
Things that we each kind of stick to... he does lawn/maintenance... while I do bills. Other than that, we are pretty down the middle with everything. We also get our boys involved with a bunch of things. We are pretty transparent - so my oldest has helped me with the bills before. They empty the dishwasher, help cook, dust, and we've started laundry with them. It's a team effort... and I want them to learn that way too!
He does the boys/school routine in the morning. I do after school/homework. We both cook, and usually cook together. Sometimes the kids join in. We also have a cleaning service every 2 weeks. We came to the conclusion that our time is better doing other things... and not getting stressed about cleaning. We both keep things pretty neat between visits - or at least we clean a little before she comes, lol!
Things that we each kind of stick to... he does lawn/maintenance... while I do bills. Other than that, we are pretty down the middle with everything. We also get our boys involved with a bunch of things. We are pretty transparent - so my oldest has helped me with the bills before. They empty the dishwasher, help cook, dust, and we've started laundry with them. It's a team effort... and I want them to learn that way too!

