I grew up in northern Indiana near Notre Dame/South Bend. I currently live in Indianapolis.
I love the city. I love the culture: concerts, museums, etc. I love being close to the interstate and an international airport so traveling is convenient(ish). I love having Target, the grocery store, and library 5-10 minutes from my house. If we end up staying around here permanently, we'd move into the 'burbs since the schools in the county north of us are 10x better (and that is my number one requirement in a place to live), but we'd still be 30-40 minutes from the actual city and close to Target, the store, etc., just different ones. I enjoy the country in small doses -- outings, photo shoots, hikes --- but don't want to live there.
The longterm goal is to move south with NC, SC, TN, and GA being my top picks. We'd still live in a big metro area, but the weather wouldn't be so cold.