Possible job change

RebeccaH

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There is a possibility of a job change in my near(ish) future.

For the past almost 2 years, i've been working part time at the kids' school doing recess and lunch. i've been 'promoted' to the kitchen, so now i cook the chicken nuggets. it's big time stuff. BUT... it works great for my schedule. i go in when the kids get on the bus. i'm done before they get home. if someone is sick, or if i'm sick, there are no worries. and when school is canceled (or when we're on break), i'm home. it's a perfect arrangement as far as being home for my kids but still making a bit of money.

BUT.

i have recently been asked about a part-time accounting position, which would pay 2 1/2 times what i'm making at the school. i don't know yet what the hours are, or how much flexibility there is. i was simply asked to submit a resume. the extra pay would be great. the loss of ability to be home on breaks and whatnot would be not-so-great. there's also a second accounting opportunity that is a bit further down the road, but still a possibility. it would actually be full time at the plant where my hubby works, and it would be a pretty sizable salary.

i'm TORN. i would love to contribute more financially. and i would love to do something that is more personally fulfilling... because cooking frozen food just doesn't do much for me on a personal level. but still, i really value always being present for my kids. i don't currently have to shuffle them around from person to person, or rush here and there for practices and events. i don't have to leave them home alone or at someone else's house on breaks.

??????
 
tough call on that one - i'm always a fan of being around when the kids are, but maybe the accounting job, if part-time, would be able to have that flexibility?
 
it's so hard to decide with something like this regarding work and kids... hopefully the flexibility will be there with the accounting position. Everyone wants more pay, but then when you have to worry about where the kids are going to stay, and pay for that, etc...
 
Rebecca, my one regret is not being around as much as I would like for the kids. I have a job that pays very well, but I HATE it. So that makes me miserable to be around after a long day. I wish I could start all over and do something that makes me happy and allows me more time with my family.
 
stampin_rachel;n510565 said:
Rebecca, my one regret is not being around as much as I would like for the kids. I have a job that pays very well, but I HATE it. So that makes me miserable to be around after a long day. I wish I could start all over and do something that makes me happy and allows me more time with my family.

this makes me sad...if you could do any job Rachel, what would you want it to be?
 
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If you don't need the money, I would stay home while you can and soak up your kids. Never underestimate the value of being a great mom to your kids. There will always be accounting opportunities later. If the part time gig works out and can be just as flexible then that's a win win!
 
I totally agree with Karen i only do 10 hours a week so that i can be with my kids and love it,the money im on isnt great but it pays the rent so we win all round
 
nope, we don't really NEED the extra money. we have operated on our budget for quite some time now. but there are a few things we have been putting off because we don't have the extra $ for it. we would be able to work towards those goals if i were getting paid more. it has been extremely important to me to be available to my kids, especially with all of the moves we have done in the past few years. i think that my presence has been one of the primary reasons my kids have felt any sense of stability with all the changes that they've had to go through. i wouldn't have traded that for anything! and certainly, if there's not the flexibility i need, i would not take the accounting position.

Rachel, it makes me sad that you're in a job you don't like. i can totally relate - i've been there for sure. What would you do if you could pick anything?
 
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