I hate doing laundry. Hate it.
Maybe I'd like it more if DH could (1) empty pockets of all change, pens, papers, receipts, bus passes, etc and (2) stop spilling acid on his clothes at work and then
forgetting to tell me so I wash his acid-that-burns-through-clothes stuff in with my clothes.
That drives me nuts. Like, totally cray cray.
I do probably 9 loads on the weekend and 3 to 5 during the week (depends how messy people are). My 1yo DS creates messes on his clothes as well as mine (cuz he's a food thrower). As far as folding...I let it pile up and then I do a massive folding marathon while watching TV at night.We have a king size bed so that's a load of sheets right there, then 2 loads of towels, and another load of sheets (DD's and DS's sheets). Then there's a load of reds/pinks, 2 of darks, and 1 white, and 1 undies and PJs. Then there's the kitchen towels. Hopefully when the kids are older they'll both help out with laundry, both in keeping down the amount of messy stuff (like, they won't have to wear 4 different outfits in a day lol) and in actually doing the laundry.
When we move (which should be some time within a year), I've already told DH that I want one of those big honking machines that holds a ton of laundry. Then I can pare down our loads to ONE each of towels, sheets, and darks. That'll save me time right there.