This day was my wedding anniversary before it became one of the biggest tragedies I have ever known.
I was going to take vacation that week for my husband and I to visit Disney World with the kids for the first time. My boss wanted to say no because his anniversary was also the 11th. We discovered we were married at the same time, same year, same city, different churches. Which we hadn't known previously. We decided together we both deserved the celebration and let his boss know we would be gone that week.
As life happens, my father-in-law became ill enough to have his leg amputated right before we were scheduled to leave, and the day of our anniversary,my husband and I were in the bedroom doing some DIY on a window looking over the family room.
my oldest son was studying for finals at McGill and ran down the stairs shouting - turn on the TV, a plane crashed in New York.
we all watched silently as the events unfolded and changed our lives. We saw the second plane live and the towers and lives crash down in front of our eyes.
I worried that my boss and his wife might be stuck with all the planes down. Some anniversary for either of us, I thought.
Because we are all connected, I think, he called me in the midst of all the anxiety. They had not gone away either, their kids were sick, so they were safe and together too.
I'll never forget that day. As long as I live, and while it is a happy day for me because of my marriage, it is bittersweet when I think of the tragedy and suffering it brought to my home country.
I can never forget our heroes who risked and sometimes sacrificed their lives to protect our own.
Let this day Honor them.