I'm definitely not the norm...
Do you live within 18 miles of your mom? No, 350 miles away
Or your partner's mom? No, 1525 miles away
Do you live in the same state? No, I'm in CA and she's in AZ (MiL is in Canada)
Do you live in or near the city you grew up in? I was born in a suburb of Los Angeles, and we're about 70 miles away
And my curiosity, what's the longest move you've ever done?
First, I've never been a military kid or adult, and I've moved 36 times! In my first year of life, my dad had some training for a job that moved us from CA, to NY, to MN, to WA, back to CA! As a kid, we lived all over CA some short moves, some from Southern to Northern to S CA then moved to UT, back to CA, then I moved to AZ as young adult, back to CA when married, and then next longest move would be CA to MS and then back to CA 8 yrs. ago. This condo we're currently in is the longest I've ever lived in one place in my entire life! 8 yrs! My shortest move was 3 houses down, went from renting to owning in a little mountain community in SoCal, that was next longest we lived in one area 9 yrs/but 2 residences (multiple evacuations from fires over those 9 yrs), we moved from there to MS for 5 yrs. and then back to CA and here we've stayed. And, it doesn't feel like we stayed in one place since we've had multiple water issues that have necessitated packing up large parts of the house for the repair, 3 times now. I'm slowly getting things back in order from the 3rd disaster on July 20th. Exhausting, I don't recommend any of it.