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My mom had a stroke yesterday but we didn't know what it was until hours later.

Yesterday was a very, very long day for our family. It started at 4pm - she couldn't walk, she struggled to stand up, her speech was slurred, she looked disoriented. I was worried that it could be her depression because she had been hospitalized a few times due to that before. My family and I tried to massage her arms & legs, tried to give her food etc but they didn't work, and I was worried sick, so I dialled 999. An ambulance came in 10 mins and my mom was brought to the hospital immediately.

The Medical Officer that came told us that he suspected that it was stroke, but I didn't believe it because her health test results had always came out well. I was in denial. I was also worried of losing my mom.

After waiting for an hour at the Emergency department, I was allowed to see my mom. The doc confirmed that it was a stroke, and they worried if the veins in her brain ruptured, so they had to perform CT scan. Thank God that it was only blood clotting, which is a less serious stroke. She was then taken to the ward upstairs, and me and my sisters stayed with her at the hospital to take care of her.

She's now home after being hospitalized for a day. Her speech is still slurred and she still seems a little disoriented, but she's definitely better than yesterday.

One big lesson that I learned yesterday is that my parents had raised us well. Every sibling that stays within the state came immediately after receiving the news. My elder sister that stayed far from us even booked a flight immediately and is now here at our house in Cyberjaya.

I'm glad that my family stays together in tough times and in happier times.
 
:( Oh no that must have been such a shock for you all to see your Mom like this and finding out she had a stroke! I hope she will make a full and quick recovery!!
 
So so sorry that it was such a medical emergency, but I adore your family and your appreciation for them! hugs to you, challenges come and go...hug your mom and all your family and tell stories you can scrap later!
 
Sorry to hear about your mom. I am with Anne and it is wonderful your family was there for her when she need you all. I hope that she has a good recovery. :)
 
Thinking of you, your family and your mum xx hugs!

I appreciate how scary this is, my mum had 2 strokes when I was about 14/15 - They were the smaller kind, thankfully. It takes time for them to recover, but with love and support they can get there, it sounds like your mum has love and support in abundance, which is a beautiful thing!
 
Oh my! That is so scary! I'm glad that she seems to be doing better and that you have lots of family to support her!
 
Sorry to hear about your mom. I'm glad you have such a great support system. Prayers and hugs.
 
Sorry for all you and your family are going through right now. Hoping your mom recovers quickly. Great to hear that you have such a close family of support.
 
Oh no, that must have been really scary... I was in shock when it happened, and was also confused. I hope my mom can recover quickly because it pains me to see her in this condition right now.

I appreciate how scary this is, my mum had 2 strokes when I was about 14/15 - They were the smaller kind, thankfully. It takes time for them to recover, but with love and support they can get there, it sounds like your mum has love and support in abundance, which is a beautiful thing!
 
Thanks so much everyone for your support & kind words..I really appreciate them. I'm trying to be strong here, it's definitely easier to do when my family is around. I don't know if I can survive without them.
 
Oh man, will be praying for her recovery!! ((HUGS)) to you and glad you have family there to help during this time.
 
Sorry to hear this :( Sending hugs and many prayers to your Mom and to you
 
glad Z to hear your Mom is home and everyone is together during this health issue. It is so hard to see it happen to your parent, and scary as well. So glad that it wasn't a serious stroke and my thoughts are with you that she regains her speech and such pronto. I am sure she too was very scared. Hugs to you and I know she is grateful to have you by her side. Big Big hugs to you.


Christa
 
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My mom had a series of mini strokes while visiting my brother a few years ago. She's doing well now. With such a caring, close family, I'm sure your mom will do well, too. Big hugs for you, your mom, and your family.
 
How is she doing? I pray she has a quick full report. How wonderful that the family was all able to come together.
 
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