I am so glad to see some great responses here. We are having a hugely hard time deciding.
Lauren, what office is your hubbs in? Scott would be in the old Compaq headquarters on Cutten Road. It's near the Tomball area. We were looking at houses in the Woodlands. Seems to be the best area, but I've been given a few different ideas.
Our issue is that Scott will likely need to rent a nice, small apartment for about 6 months. He'd take our oldest cocker, Wil, so we need something pet friendly. Hopefully we could buy after that if we are going to stay. I am not finding a lot of good rental property. I guess outside college towns is harder. We make it even more complicated by needed a fenced in yard and a very open minded pet friendly landlord (4 dogs, 5 cats). They take a risk with us but we have lots of references that our pets are clean and well cared for. No chewing the doors or peeing on the carpet kind of things going on.
I am worried about the heat, I think it's bad here. I'd rather move north.
Lauren, where are you from originally? Is your family far? Homesick is a big concern of mine too.
Dana, I don't know what specific questions I have... we are mostly worried about being able to afford housing in a nice area, me getting a job, and the cost of living. Scott's offer is for 56,000 (I know that is personal info, but frankly, I don't see any reason to *not tell ya'll)... it's 10,000 more than our combined income now. We barely get by. I'd keep my job here for about 6 months but I don't contribute a huge amount to our income... I am the lowest level admin assistant at the U of A). I think we keep coming back to... can we survive and do "well" on that?
Another big question we have is if Scott can get a better offer, he has a ton of experience and now two college degrees with specific programming experience that is hard to come by. We keep thinking we should hold out for something better but what if it never comes??