@JillW That is too funny!!! That is my hubs too. We can't eat dinner in the LR b/c he always makes a mess LOL. So sit at the kitchen table to eat while we watch the little flat screen in there and then when he finishes we can go into the LR to continue watching on the big screen. Taz knows that there are always crumbs and bits around D's chair.
I don't think it was all him; it was something I had been working on for a while, but it seemed to be easier to do when he was there telling me that I shouldn't worry about the things that can't be changed.
Somehow, when I started dating my husband, he managed to break me of the worrying-about-things-out-of-my-control habit.
(I'm facing my back porch with a collapsed gazebo; we didn't get around to taking the tarp down last fall and all the snow from the last two days was too much weight for the lightweight frame. I could worry about whether it's going to collapse more -- I think it is a little more bent over today compared to yesterday and I'm glad I rescued the planter that was on the shelf -- but I'm just going to appreciate that the deck appears to be still all in one piece and that it collapsed toward the middle and not toward the glass doors on the house. My mom, on the other hand, would lie awake nights worrying that the entire deck is going to fall down -- if she knew about it. It's supposed to be near 40 degress F Wednesday and Thursday, so I think we need to leave it alone until after the snow on it melts. It's really ugly right now though.)
(Is that letting it go when I take the time to write a super long paragraph about it? It's supposed to be an example of a time I let something go. LOL)
I am the one that spills; mostly water -- I seem to be more careful with non-water things. I even get the front of my shirt all wet whenever I wash dishes!
Am I goof at letting things go? better now, at al;most 60 years old, but depends on what....
Now about crying? proper crying like emotional crying? I do it ALL the time.
If I don't cry with certain things, stuff builds up and then.... I don't want anymore medication, so, yes,m I do cry, quiet a LOT !!!
Spilling thing? as in physically?
YES- that would be me again
My mum and paternal grandma, they used to laugh at my grandfather, my gran would layer the floor under his dinner chair with newspaper [ages, so then when he stood up, she just grabbed the papers and throw away.... and they used to say that the older we get, the more we go back to being babies.....
so, yes, I so spill a LOT LOL
I AM Officially OLD!!!!
Oh you make me smile! I totally get the emotional crying, but I don't do it. It's not that I don't feel things, I just don't cry, like ever. Well, once in a while but at this moment, I could not tell you the last time that I actually cried tears. My kids joke that I have no heart and am an ice queen LOL
And what a funny story about the newspapers! Sounds like your grandma was a smart efficient lady. Maybe I need to do that more with Chance and Randy!
And that gif ....
