Oh, what wonderful and not-so-wonderful memories you've brought to my mind of gumbo and other things.
My husband, son, daughter and I got stuck in New Orleans during Hurricane Katrina; we were booked on the last flight out of the city but could not get to the airport because by then evacuation was mandated by the mayor. Luckily the Holiday Inn in which we stayed remained open during the storm; most hotels did not. Anyway, by Wednesday the manager was telling us we all had to leave the hotel. He suggested going to the Superdome; we said before we'd go there, we'd sleep outside of the Greyhound Bus station which had been commandeered by the National Guard.
As it turned out there was a woman staying in the hotel with whom I made friends. She was a New Orleanian native who'd come to the hotel to weather the storm, which was a good thing because her house was destroyed and her next door neighbor who'd stayed home, died there. M. was close to 80 years old and alone; she agreed to let us vacate the hotel with her. That was an adventure, alright! Walking through the water, searching for hidden items that might damage the car, carrying luggage so it wouldn't weigh the car down - all of this until we got to higher ground and could then join her in the car. We made it safely to Baton Rouge where we boarded a plane for home.
M. and my husband became good friends and our friendship remains (my husband passed away almost 3 years ago; M. is about 96 yrs old now). We used to fly from PA to LA to visit her regularly. On one of the visits she 'taught' me how to make seafood Gumbo. That was an experience. We spent hours in the kitchen, adding and tasting and tasting and adding a little more of this and and a little more of that. I enjoyed my time with M. but was really, really ready to get out of that kitchen. The Gumbo was delicious! Sooo good. My hubby, a seafood lover who'd spent the time watching football all day was an eager recipient of our creation.
M. sent me some of the gumbo (creole spice, crab boil) ingredients to encourage me to make the Gumbo at home...never happened. I think I have the recipe somewhere, but since I never used it I can't tell you whether it is good or not. Who knows what recipe we used that day in the kitchen!
Typing this has made me want to revisit that recipe. If I do and if it is good, I will make sure I send it to you
@umyesh. Thank you for this bittersweet walk down memory lane.