I haven't had a traditional Thanksgiving meal in more than 20 years. For a few years I would go to an aunt & uncle's house on Thanksgiving when they had their combination Thanksgiving/Christmas dinner. As the grandkids got involved in other activities, that changed to whenever they could get everybody together. One year it was on New Year's Eve. Thanksgiving just isn't a big holiday in my family any more. The big family gatherings we had went by the wayside as my cousins started getting married and having other families to consider. I would guess our last one was 30 years ago. After that it was just Mom, Dad & I until Mom passed away. Then Dad moved to NC.
Last year and today I spent the day with my 2nd cousin. Last year, it was just 2 weeks after her mother passed away. Not a big deal, just time together. This year I went to her house for a few hours and took my spaghetti with me. Due to oral surgery, I am unable to eat/chew many foods so couldn't have a traditional meal.
Hopefully next year I can have a traditional meal even if it is from Bob Evans!!! (That's what she got. She ordered a meal for 4 and will freeze a couple of them for later).