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here is the journaling

As you of course know, I turned 65 in November 2017. That means I get Medicare, reduced rate on subway and MTA and other “older folks” benefits. But it doesn’t mean I am old! When I look to the future I know the years will accumulate but I want you/me to know that I think it is important to keep doing what you/me are doing and stay young at heart.

Do the things that make you happy. Stay active. Move, move , move. As I always say, we do it ( ski, hike, walk, bike etc) because we can and as long as we can we should. I know from my own experience it is easy to find reasons not to exercise and certainly I have found that my “mojo” has lessend the older I get but keep on doing your best to exercise. It is good for your health, both physically and mentally.

Travel as much as you can afford, time and money wise, as it broadens your horizons, is a learning experience, makes for photos opportunities and great memories. And keeps you active.

Continue to do for others, whether it be for a friend or community or cause. You can gain more happiness doing for others than doing for yourself. You know the old expression, “it’s better to give than to receive”

Try to step “outside the box” and challenge yourself, whether it be mentally or physically or both. Learning new things keeps us young. Keep up with the latest TV, books, social trends though you may have to learn what’s “in” from your kids and grandkids. Try to learn something new every day. It may be something small but whatever it is never stop learning or wanting to learn. Continue to learn and practice photography and of course scrapbook. I do believe the kids and their kids and the future generations will appreciate it.

Always value family as you do. Spend as much time as you can together. Talk, listen and keep your mouth shut when necessary. Continue to help out when you can and also ask for help when you need it. None of us know what lies ahead, everyday or as we age and it is good to recognize when and if you need help. Your family will be there for you and will be more than happy that you accept their help if necessary.

Think about if you can downsize. I know you are already thinking about this but keep on thinking and maybe even do it. Stop buying and accumulating “stuff”. We don’t usually need the stuff we buy. At this point in my life I don’t need much materially. When you want to buy something question do I really need it or will it just end up in a closet, given away or thrown out. Try to clean out the stuff you have already in the house. Your children will appreciate it when you are gone or decide to move. Remember stuff I had to dispose of ( at great cost of time and money ) from my parents house. Family, friends, activities, photos, memories are more important than “stuff”

Well, future me, hope some of these ideas are things that you will naturally think about and follow in the years to come. Stay healthy, laugh a lot, love intensely and enjoy the years to come.

LOVE and Hugs to US ,