Another day another plan..

Wow, that sounds like a lot to process, and even if the change to *not* going to hospice is a good change, you still had to go through all of those emotions (and the pushy consult #1!).

I'm so glad that his chemo oncologist had an alternative course of action and it's wonderful that Dick has hope. I'm always amazed by all the things speech therapy can accomplish, and I am sure Dick's speech therapist will be a great help with his swallowing.

Hugs, Maureen!

ETA: I forgot to say that you're bad hair day comment made me giggle!

 

Oh Maureen! How frightening this all must be for you! Hugs and may the Holy Spirit grant wisdom & peace to you and Dick on this blessed Pentecost!

 

I am sorry that the hospital would tell you something that is not what the oncologist's plan was. I am so happy he has a plan for Dick. btw. not fair to call it bad hair against that doctor's almost wig like perfect hair. It's just not a fair picture for Dick. LOVE YOU, Maureen! We are here for you.

 

Dealing with that first woman must have been a horrible ordeal. Dick looks so cute in that picture, INCLUDING his hair. Glad you ended the day with some uplifting news. Praying for you both.

 

I’m sorry that it’s come to this, but know that hospice care is wonderful. They’ll make him (and you) comfortable in his last days.

Sending you lots of virtual hugs.

 

Continuing to keep you both in my prayers! What a roller coaster of emotions you all are dealing with. Love and big hugs to you

 

I had to smile at the bad hair remark because when my mom was in the hospital a lot during her health decline at the end, she complained and made faces about how terrible her hair was all the time and was always making us laugh about it.

What an emotional time you both had. I will continue to send prayers, hope, peace and positive thoughts for you both. However this unfolds and whatever care he needs, what a comfort that he has you right there with him. Hugs to you both.

 

I don't even see the bad hair, I see two broad smiles and that is something special.
Lots of love to you and him as you process and face the future. One day at a time and good things in every day.

 

I agree with all of the above. We've spent a great amount of time in hospitals with our youngest DD's health problems. so I know how frustrating it is when all of the different "experts" come at you with a "plan". I can totally relate to "Miss Centerfold", too. Steph's most recent stay was at Cleveland Clinic, FL and one of the "experts" came in dressed to the nines and worse had on "clippy clop" high heels.

You just need to trust the Dr in charge, in your case Dick's oncologist. They're calling all the shots, anyway, and have to approve everything else. You and Dick are in my thoughts and prayers every day. Sending lots of Cyber Hugs to you both. PS I think Dick's hair looks great for everything he's been through.

 

I'm so sorry you had to deal with the emotions and the woman #1. Continued prayers for you both. And some people would say that at least he's got hair!

 

Such an emotional roller coaster you have both been on. So glad to hear the message of hope. Praying for you both -- one day at a time!

 

Sorry that you've had to deal with such a roller coaster of emotions. Hugs to you both. I hope the next few weeks go well for you both.

 

Awww sending you big hugs and love

 

Wow Maureen! As if the emotions you must be feeling aren't enough, to have that rollercoaster of a day must be exhausting! I'm SO glad that the oncologist doesn't feel it's time for Hospice and it gave me goosebumps to hear about Dick's voice being stronger with a spot of hope given to him! That can make all the difference in the world! I love that cute picture of him with his doctor too... so good to see him smiling! Continued prayer for you both!

 

Hope and prayers Maureen that Dick continues on this positive path. I am so glad the oncologist came in with new plans The smile on Dick's face shows it all I will continue my prayers and thinking of you.

(I have been in your place re the consult with the Hospice etc.. it is not easy and it is hard emootionally.. all I can say is big hugs)

 

@cookingmylife
Maureen, I agree with @Cherylndesigns- have to stick with the Dr.'s recommendations. Haven't had to deal with that for me or hubster, but for my mother. She's had 8 surgeries, triple bypass, pacemaker, etc... Dad gets completely flustered and so decisions and details fall to one of us girls. Learned during Mom's first heart cath. to double check things, and not accept conflicting reports. Praying for you both- hold onto hope and choose joy- it is like a medicine!

 

Maureen, thanks for the update. I am siding with the oncologist. His prognosis sounds the most positive. And while it is so difficult keeping upbeat, you and Dick have to. There is something to be said for laughter being the best medicine... And I love Dick's smile AND hair. Keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers.